Family of God # 6

I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God (Romans 12:1-2).

The passage speaks of the need for every believer to take personal responsibility for their growth in Christ for many reasons. Most definitely it is required for the social/relational health of the church. In family systems theory we refer to this level of responsibility as "individuality force." Emotionally healthy individuals normally can resist the immaturity of becoming emotionally attached to the anxiety or problems of others.

The individuality force enables us to adapt in life, to set and fulfill goals, to live out an orderly life course and make healthy contributions to families, church and society. People of individuality usually experience a happy life and are a blessing to all who know them through satisfying and stable relationships.

So, according to Paul we must "present" self to God (verse 1) and "be transformed by the renewing of our mind" (verse 2). Otherwise we will continue to conform to the unhealthy pattern of the world. Continuing to live day to day from one problem to the next, usually on the brink, and barely making it at all. Choosing to live as hermits, angry, rebels, relational nomads unable to attach to God and others in meaningful ways. Unable to delight in the ways of Jesus through giving and serving others in healthy ways.

So, how is mind renewal achieved? I would like to hear your take. Thanks for stopping by!
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Adrian